PERSONAL STATUS
- Being emotionally and physically single or being divorced.
- Being married or living separated or in the process of divorce is not appropriate and desired. Because women need to feel dependability and reliability of man. When you are not legally single, you won’t be able to create this feeling.
- If you are legally single but living with a partner, or dating simultaneously with other women or being a boyfriend of another woman but still looking for alternatives is neither desired nor acceptable.)
- Being monogamous.
- You may have kids living with you or living with his partner and sometimes stays with you. It is acceptable for me.
- I expect the man to accept me together with my kids and feel comfortable to spend time together.
HEALTH CONDITION
- Being healthy.
- If you have any sexually transmittable diseases, it is not acceptable for me.
- I expect you to have blood test for Hepatitis A, B, C and HIV virus done in a week before having any sexual relationship.
FINANCIAL STATUS
- Having a financial stability, enough income for at least 2 people.
- I don’t need your money or financial support but I would like to feel safe and secure if you are capable of earning money and successful to support our relationship financially.
LEGAL STATUS
- Having a clean legal history in terms of crime or violence.
50 Most Desirable Qualities of An Ideal Partner with My Own Preference
“Required” means you must have this quality
“Preferred” means it would be great if you have it but it is not mandatory for me
“NA” means I don’t desire or look at this quality in my decision for a partner
27 Most Commonly Desired Traits
1. Chemistry: feeling deeply in love with and attracted to the partner.Required
2. Communication: someone good at both talking and listening.Required
3. Sense of Humor: someone sharp who can enjoy the humorous side of life.Required
4. Verbal Intimacy: a partner who shares his or her deepest emotional thoughts and desires.Preferred
5. Emotionally Health: a partner who is emotionally healthy and able to share a stable life with someone else.Required
6. Strong Character: a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing.Required
7. Artistic: a partner who has a passion for music, literature, drama, art, and the finer things in life, either as a spectator or participant.Preferred
8. Kindness: a partner who is gentle and kind.Preferred
9. Educated: someone whose educational achievements are of a similar level.Preferred
10. Organized: a partner who values structure in his or her life.Required
11. Exciting: someone who isn’t afraid to take a risk and who sees life as an adventure.Preferred
12. Patient: someone who can handle life’s frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady demeanor.Preferred
13. Tolerant: a partner able to hear and appreciate divergent viewpoints.Preferred
14. Conflict Resolver: a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts within our relationship.Preferred
15. Attractive: a partner considered “attractive” by most current standards.NA
16. Personal Habits: a partner who maintains high standards of personal hygiene, orderliness, and other personal habits.Preferred
17. Affectionate: someone comfortable giving and receiving affection.Required
18. Industrious: someone willing to work hard at whatever they do.Required
19. Energy Level: someone whose energy level matches my own.Preferred
20. Emotionally Generous: a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies, and love.Required
21. Intellectual: a partner who is bright and can share an understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues.Preferred
22. Self-Confident: a partner who knows and believes in himself or herself throughout life’s ups and downs.Required
23. Unassuming: someone able to accept criticism and even admit to being wrong sometimes.Required
24. Able to Accept Help: a partner willing to accept outside help for personal or relationship issues that are serious and important.Preferred
25. Curious: a partner hungry for new information and knowledge, and who strives to learn as much as possible.Preferred
26. Loyal: someone who can be counted on – to be supportive and on the same side.Required
27. Adaptable: a partner able to adapt to life’s surprises.Preferred
5 Most Commonly Desired Values
1. Family Life: a partner committed to marriage, home, and family.Preferred
2. Shared Interests: someone willing to share my interests and passions. Preferred
3. Style and Appearance: someone who cares about the way they look and dress and has a sense of personal style.Preferred
4. Shared Politics: someone with the same or similar political beliefs.NA
5. Spirit of Volunteerism: a partner who shares a willingness to volunteer and support community and/or social causes.NA
5 Most Common Preferences Regarding Family
1. No Children: someone who shares a desire not to have children.NA
2. Family: someone who shares a desire to have or adopt children.NA
3. Stepchildren: someone who will accept their partner’s children as his or her own.Preferred
4. Parenting Style: someone who shares views about how to raise children.Preferred
5. Parent Care: someone willing to help me take care of (their and/or) their partner’s parents, now or when the time comes.Preferred
3 Most Common Preferences Regarding Social Living
1. Staying In: a partner who mainly enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends. NA
2. Sociability: a partner who loves to socialize with lots of different people. Prefered
3. Autonomy: a partner who will give enough space to for a partner to be their own person.Prefered
3 Most Common Preferences Regarding Spirituality
1. Spirituality: someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality and who shares my beliefs. NA
2. Religious Practice: a partner committed to being an active member of a church, temple, or congregation. NA
3. Spiritual Acceptance: a partner who accepts and respects my spiritual beliefs, whether he or she shares them or not. Required
3 Most Common Preferences Regarding Career and Finances
1. Responsible: a partner who is financially responsible.Required
2. Ambitious: a partner who shares desires to achieve high financial and/or career goals. NA
3. Relaxed: a partner able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life. NA
4 Most Common Preferences Regarding Sexuality
1. Abstinent: a spouse who has saved himself or herself sexually for marriage. NA
2. Conservative: someone reserved and traditional in his or her sexual needs. NA
3. Sexually Knowledgeable: someone mature and knowledgeable as a potential sexual partner and able to express himself or herself freely. Preferred
4. Passionate: someone willing to explore mutual sexual desires with passion and understanding. Required
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